Things only long distance couples will relate to.
Relationships are hard and more harder are long distance .Finding someone for whom you would never lose feelings for and never leave them besides the distance between you.Distance is not for fearful ,it is for the one who can spend a time alone and exchange for a little.Time ,distance and nothing can separate you because you know it is worth and real.
So if you love someone with distance between you both then trust me once you are together you are unstoppable.Distance can't stop whats meant to be together.Its true you don't have it like ordinary couple but it is more than ordinary love.When they work long distance relationships are beautiful. Like you wait for month or maybe a year,cross miles, have few moments with person you love that's it you know this is where your heart lies and all you were searching for.
There are so many reasons to fight,cry,laugh,breakup,but but will surely give you reason to love each other harder than any couple does.But at the end you will we have something gained.We put our entire energy ,time and self into someone .Even if you not hold hands as often,even if you don't meet for months all you do is to wait wait and wait for them.
Set expectation.
Your relationship should surely have a priority in your life if you really want to be there. we actually can't expect from the other person to give enough time and space without going crazy .Be realistic .
Make everything clear and set your partner on same page.
Communication is key.
This is main concern . you don't get to talk for days due to busy schedule .
Yes maybe many days would go bare but at end you cannot be without someone you love for long and miss them regularly.
Birthdays and anniversary are spent on phones.
Being apart you have to spend all special days alone .Skype may help you to communicate often but never to worry one day you will celebrate it together.
you will get jealous atleast at once.
you both will be making tons of friends.you will get jealous with people who spend time with your partner .I too had this but i knew i did not have to worry because i trust him .Getting jealous by seeing other couple hanging out ,taking pictures.A good amount of jealousy is ok but don't let it take over your relationship.
Fights are inevitable.
Because long distance relationships are prone to ups and downs you will run into simple conflicts about time and misunderstanding.Just remember distance is temporary. Its hard to be mad on someone with smiling face but do it for the sake of relation. If if do fight take a step back and see why are you fighting.
Tough decisions will need to be made.
At times you have questions like
where will this relation take us?
Are we going to visit?if so when ?
They all have answers and there are plenty more to be answered .They raise emotions .The longer you take to resolve you will be more stressed on each other. Taking and working out will be good fpr both.
It will be hard but it's all worth it.
If you are meant to be together then you will. It can totally be worth it. Your love ,effort ,determination will surely make it work .Whatever it takes just make sure you never give up on you love.
So if you love someone with distance between you both then trust me once you are together you are unstoppable.Distance can't stop whats meant to be together.Its true you don't have it like ordinary couple but it is more than ordinary love.When they work long distance relationships are beautiful. Like you wait for month or maybe a year,cross miles, have few moments with person you love that's it you know this is where your heart lies and all you were searching for.
There are so many reasons to fight,cry,laugh,breakup,but but will surely give you reason to love each other harder than any couple does.But at the end you will we have something gained.We put our entire energy ,time and self into someone .Even if you not hold hands as often,even if you don't meet for months all you do is to wait wait and wait for them.
Set expectation.
Your relationship should surely have a priority in your life if you really want to be there. we actually can't expect from the other person to give enough time and space without going crazy .Be realistic .
Make everything clear and set your partner on same page.
Communication is key.
This is main concern . you don't get to talk for days due to busy schedule .
Yes maybe many days would go bare but at end you cannot be without someone you love for long and miss them regularly.
Birthdays and anniversary are spent on phones.
Being apart you have to spend all special days alone .Skype may help you to communicate often but never to worry one day you will celebrate it together.
you will get jealous atleast at once.
you both will be making tons of friends.you will get jealous with people who spend time with your partner .I too had this but i knew i did not have to worry because i trust him .Getting jealous by seeing other couple hanging out ,taking pictures.A good amount of jealousy is ok but don't let it take over your relationship.
Fights are inevitable.
Because long distance relationships are prone to ups and downs you will run into simple conflicts about time and misunderstanding.Just remember distance is temporary. Its hard to be mad on someone with smiling face but do it for the sake of relation. If if do fight take a step back and see why are you fighting.
Tough decisions will need to be made.
At times you have questions like
where will this relation take us?
Are we going to visit?if so when ?
They all have answers and there are plenty more to be answered .They raise emotions .The longer you take to resolve you will be more stressed on each other. Taking and working out will be good fpr both.
It will be hard but it's all worth it.
If you are meant to be together then you will. It can totally be worth it. Your love ,effort ,determination will surely make it work .Whatever it takes just make sure you never give up on you love.
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