Why we need to leave toxic relationships?

Every one dreams of happily ever after. Although, when you fall in love with a person you do not recognise or you just simply ignore the signs that this relationship might be toxic for you. Toxic  is often defined  when the interactions of the person or boundaries are often blurred, where individuals seems to be controlling, demanding challenging and often abusive. This may not be just physically but more importantly mentally. 

There are no toxic people it’s just their behaviours are toxic. Despite of severe pain and abuse many people choose to live in such relationships. There is variety of complicated reasons such as love, afraid to be alone, acceptance, or you just believe that this relationship or connection is like no other.

But let me tell you one thing while your love may be strong for this person but it is not the ultimate love of your life in this world and letting go does not mean you will never experience a greater love than this in your life. 

Just remember if you let go of this person who is a toxic for your mental health more than your physical health. I know letting go of a person has a deeper impact and is difficult. Letting go of this toxic relationship is critical to have a happy life.

Sometimes you feel absolutely struck with that person, you want to leave but you are just not able to. Many women feel that this is the way it is supposed to be or they are not able to take a stand for themselves .This  leads to self harming feelings like depression, fear and most importantly you loose your self-esteem, morale, decision making abilities.

A healthy and positive mental health is the most important to live a happy and positive life. You cannot heal in the same place that hurts you. More than anything in this world your happiness matters, you matter. 

Once you let go of this disturbing relationship you will feel much better. Letting go of toxic people will not only make you happy but also will make space for people who truly deserve you.

 We all Know someone who is going through this situation or you may yourself be  going through it. It is so important to take stand for yourself rather than ending in a worse situation .

Talk to people. And most importantly live for your own happiness because there is no love greater than self love.